Thursday, May 29, 2008

The Day My Mascara Gone Before Reaching Office

My heart sank tis morning listening to the Fly.fm while driving to office...
You see.. to those who don't know, Fly.fm got tis program 'Fix It' where people call the radio to share their problem and Phat Fab and Ruben (the DJ) will try to fix it... all kind of problems.. gaduh wit housemate laa, masalah gemuk laa, kena marah boss la... u get the picture.
But today is different. A mother called up and her problem is her daughter, Lina. U see, Lina is 9 year old and just lost her father 3 months ago. Eversince, she's been very upset and always angry with her mom.
The mom didn't know that dat all this while, Lina and her father always go out spent time together like go to the park and drink teh tarik and stuff. The father was her was bestest friend. How the mother didn't realized this is somewat puzzling me, must be one very 'busy' woman. Anyway, the father made many promises to Lina like bringing the family pegi holiday laa etc etc. And then the father died of heart attack recently at the age of 42.
Since then Lina is constantly acting up at home, especially towards the little sis and mom. Mom couldn't handle the situation and the stress level, so the family went to a psychiatric . Still, Lina is angry. She must be desperate to share her problem over the national radio, but I don't mind listening to tis one coz it's so touching....
Lina have a very cute voice, but very articulate for a 9 year old.
Wen Ruben (the DJ) asked why she's upset with mummy, she said mummy is so busy wit work and she always get scolded by her even if it was her lil' sister yang buat salah. And she told him "I have so many frens at school but in my heart I have none". Tis is where i started crying...
She would love it if mummy can bring her to USA for the school holiday.
Then the mother, listening to the whole conversation at the other side interject...
"But how can we afford to go to US, sayang?"

"But abah promise?"

"Yeah, but things are different now, u know dat rite?"

The rest of the conversation become blurr coz I was busy crying and reaching for the tissue.
We know dat now the family having only single income, it's harder (maybe) impossible to fulfill those promises made by the father.
But, how can you make a 9 year old understand that?

I countinued crying until I reached the office.

Itu laa... my mom said jangan ketawa banyak sangat, nanti nangis...

True enuff, I've been having too much fun (and laughter) this week. U see, my chabie is away on 1 week course so to avoid feeling lonely and emotional I filled my days goin out and shopping. Yesterday itself, while someone was supposed to be on-duty at Parliament and the other one supposed to be in a meeting... they went mall hopping instead rushing for Coach sales!
Pavillion->The Garden->KLCC

Waiting in line in anticipation...

Muka mereka-mereka yang excited!



Muka bahagia....


And on a happy note, I give birth to these lil' babies....



Grow my baby, grow!

I'm taking my veggiemania into another level by planting my own... A bit disorganize tho cos now I dunno which one is tomato, sawi, or cili... main baling ja.


Happy weekends everyone!

17 comments:

JuSh said...

JuSh:Envy ngan ko DG.How come you went to the coach warehouse and leave me at the parliament house?sob*sob.haha

MyMatahari said...

JuuuON,

Aku pegi time lunchtime. I would have waited for you, tp tangan adalah sangat itchy tak boleh tahan ok. We actually went to all 3branches sbb kiasu kot2 ada yg lagi best!

Semua dalah keranamu Ju, thanks for reminding!

Unknown said...

its one of the adrenalin rush thing long overdue selepas our trip to singapore ;)
worth every risk taken..hahaha..

qirzah said...

mymatahari: korang ni kurang bijak sungguh. dah tahu buat kesalahan tak "duty" kat parliament (and Gedik lak supposed to be in a meeting), tapi gi post picture proof for ALL to see.

tsk tsk

wei, apsal ko nampak seakan debab in the pictures huh?

alamanda said...

hai. boleh kita kawan?

MyMatahari said...

Wewen: Jantung berdebar-debar, jiwa bergetar hehehehe.... Was so tired tis weekend beb, jadi couch potatoe

Riq: Bila je me not debab? Dats my signature look wat...

Ummu Hanis: Welkam.. saya suka berkawan. but bewarned, the owner mempunyai masalah kejiwaan sometime...

qirzah said...

The owner bukan mempunyai masalah. The owner IS masalah

Unknown said...

Cik Matahari, sudikah awak menjadi kawan saya sehidup semati?

alamanda said...

wakakaka... same la we together gether. pengidap masalah kejiwaan seumur hidup i ni. huhuhu. boleh la kita exchange our horrible story always huh? huhuhu. ok. nice to meet u.

farrahar said...

jiejie, ko masih kawan sama aku?

MyMatahari said...

Ada seorang kawan namanya ah seng, dia juga berkawan namanya muthu... kami berkawan baik sama sedarjah, belajar bersama, main bersama. hey hey hey... hey hey hey... tiga sekawan.

farrahar said...

lagu bunga matahari ko ingat?

MyMatahari said...

Bunga matahari sangat cantek, kembang diwaktu hari... Daunnya mekar, bunganya _______ (x remember the word), memikat kumbang lalu....

Lagu getah ko jak yg hafal!

alamanda said...

lagu keretapi lagi best. cus cus cus kedengaran. bunyi kereta api. laju laju kedepannnnnnnn. hebat sekali. tar tar tar bunyi roda. pon pon pon bunyi semboyan. laju laju kedepannnnnn. bersama kawan kawan. PON PON!!!

farrahar said...

DAUNNYA MEKAR??? bukan macam ni kah?

bunga matahari sangat cantek
kembang di waktu pagi
daunnya hijau bunganya kuning
memikat kumbang lalu

bunga matahari sangat cantek
di halaman rumah ku
dari lah pagi hingga ke petang
tak jemu ku memandanggg

MyMatahari said...

Aku mau lagu pokok getah!

Sarah said...

hi there. was blog hopping from farrah's blog and terserempak dgn entry ni. really sad lah. really really feel sorry for Lina and her family. :( being a parent is really tough kan... sigh